Being Known vs. Being Fixed

At the core, I'd rather be known and accepted than be fixed. I'd rather know and accept another person than try to fix them. At their core, they probably want the same. Earned trust and permission is the key, on both sides. All healing stems from this type of protection.
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Of course, the old-self is used to trying to fix self and others. But, that isn't what I and others primarily want at the core, in my opinion. We want to know and be known, primarily.